Key to Love - Accepting the difference

It is common for couples to quarrel sometimes, because of differences. As a result, both parties feel hurt and upset. It is not pleasant to experience it, but it is part of the love. Love is about sharing happy, angry, sad feelings with each other. That is one thing that makes people treasure this love. The effort and pain, to enjoy the happiness. One of the biggest mistake that most couples do is fail to understand and accept the difference. They expect the other parties to change for them and be the same. This will only work to a certain extend, because the person who is changing is not really being themselves. The greatest thing about love is to accept the difference. Take example, a loving family - they definitely have their differences and end up quarrelling sometimes. Yet they end up patching up again and form a closer bond. This is because they learn to accept the difference. Of course, they also learn from the mistakes and don't repeat again, but the important fact is, no matter what happens, they are still a family, and they love each other. That is why love is so special, accepting the difference.

I feel sad to upset my dearest. It is something I would definitely like to avoid. I'm not the perfect man for her yet, but I will definitely change for her. I hope she really love me for who I really am, and forgive my mistakes. I can't be certain everything about the future, but I'm definitely sure of one thing - I love you, my dearest Julia.